1st Date Process
Simple and Easy to Follow Process
Our Matching Process: Unique, Simple, Seamless
Getting your perfect 1st date is effortless with our user-friendly, one-of-a-kind system.
Here’s how it works:
Reach out to our matchmakers – just say, “I’m ready for a 1st date!”
Choose your style:
- Virtual (from the comfort of home with the least amount of pressure), or
- Self-planned (you set the vibe), or
- Fully organized by our pros (we handle everything)
We curate your ideal match – handpicked based on shared preferences, values, and spark potential
Sit back – we’ll confirm your date in 48–72 hours
No swiping or endless scrolling. No awkward guesses. Just a real, curated connection – ready when you are.
Your next great date starts with one message.
Meet Dates at Mixers and Events
Meet Sparks in Person at Our Mixers & Events
Another effortless way to connect? Step into our vibrant Mixers & Events—where chemistry happens naturally.
Your only plan: Show up. Mingle, laugh, and let the conversation flow with amazing, vetted singles who are just as ready as you.
No scripts. No pressure. Just real moments. This is your space to design the night—however the spark leads.
Seats are limited. Your next connection is waiting. RSVP now and step into something real. ✨
Virtual Date
Tired of endless nights out with no real connection?
Skip the hassle and try a virtual date.
We’ll pair you one-on-one with a vetted match from our exclusive metro Detroit community—someone who truly wants the same genuine, long-term relationship you do.
All from the comfort of home.
Self Plan in Person Blind 1st Date
We personally match you with another member based on your mutual preferences, values, and goals.
Every detail of the date (location, activity, vibe) is also chosen together in advance, so it feels natural and comfortable for both of you.
Before you meet, you’ll each receive a thoughtfully curated profile of the other—highlighting shared interests, experiences, and conversation starters—so your first date feels like catching up with someone you already click with.
No endless messaging.
No awkward “so tell me about yourself.”
Just real, effortless connection from the very first moment.
Self Plan in Person Pick Your Match 1st Date
We send you photos and profiles of potential matches who already align with your preferences—and whose preferences align with you.
Only when both of you say “yes” to meeting do we make the introduction.
No swiping, no waiting, no wondering if they’re interested.
Once it’s a mutual match, the very next step is an in-person date—no drawn-out texting, no getting bored, no ghosting.
Clear boundaries, strict safety rules, eligibility restrictions, and contingencies always apply, so you can focus on real connection instead of endless chat.