Our vision is to strip away the negative stigma that swipe-based apps and overpriced matchmakers have inflicted on dating. We're building a vibrant community of singles united by the positive elements that make love truly great—creating something entirely unique in the world of connections.
Our services are crafted to transform dating into a truly positive experience by removing the stressful guesswork that plagues most platforms. Every member goes through a thorough application process that verifies their identity and includes a background check—ensuring safety and peace of mind for everyone involved.
Our matching process is intentionally low-stress and low-pressure: you’ll know who you’re meeting from the start, eliminating those awkward, endless chats. After each date we facilitate, we simply ask for quick, honest feedback to confirm you felt safe and to address anything we should know. It’s dating done thoughtfully, safely, and with your happiness at the heart of it all.
Access to Attend All Mixers and Event. Access to Private 1stdateclub Facebook Group. Two Virtual 1st Dates Requests.
*Regularly 49.99 per month
Access to Attend All Mixer Events. Access to Private 1stdateclub Facebook Group. Two Virtual 1st Dates Requests. One Blind 1st Date Requests.
*Regularly 99.99 per month
Access to Attend All Mixer Events. Access to Private 1stdateclub Facebook Group. Two Virtual 1st Date Requests. Two Pick Your Match 1st Date Requests.
*Regularly 199.99 per month
Background Check. Member Intake Consultation.
*Regularly 100.00
Additional 1st Date Request outside of monthly plan.
*Regularly 60.00
Additional 1st Date Request outside of monthly plan.
*Regularly 120.00
We plan the evening based on the experience you're looking to have.
200.00 Regularly
* Monthly subscription does not include Mixer and Event fees.
Please reach us at support if you cannot find an answer to your question.
Our mission is to create a safe haven for genuine singles seeking authentic, heartfelt connections—while actively tackling the frustrations and pitfalls of modern dating. No one else does this.
Our core values:
We don’t just connect people. We build trust where others have failed.
We do not offer a free trial. Our service is built for safety, transparency, and serious singles who want real connection — not another swipe-based app. This isn’t for casual browsing. It’s for those ready to invest in something different.
When signed up for a package that includes the 1st Date service, you will let us know when you are ready for a date by providing a request and the date, time and type of date (Coffee, dinner, virtual).
1st Date service can also be purchased separately if not included in your plan.
at 1stdateclub are focused on connecting singles seeking heterosexual monogamous relationships. We are currently working with organizations to expand our service to other communities.
Yes. We maintain a private, professionally moderated Facebook group—participation is 100% voluntary. We encourage members to join to stay updated on events, news, and community happenings.
Cancel via customer service representative or written notice.
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